Kei roto i ngā whakaaro o te nuinga o ngā tāngata, he mea noa iho te pēpi hei whakaaweawe i ngā tamariki. Anō he nuinga nui o ngā tāngata kāore i whakaaro i ngā tāngata whānau e whakanui ana i te pēpi. Heoi, hei oranga pai, ka whakanui i ngā pēpi hei whakamahia e ngā tāne, e kī nei ko ngā 'Men's Numbs' hei āwhina i ngā tāne ki te mahi i runga i ō rātou mahi wharepaku. Me utua te whakamā i te mea kia āwhina koe i tēnei wā.
Kei te tūhono ngā pēpihi tāne ki ngā pēpihi tamariki, ā he whakaritea ki ngā hiahia o ngā tinana tuakana. E whai ake nei ngā whatu mākiri hei whakamātau i te māku i runga i te kīnaki, ko tēnei he mea nui mo te waea. He rau kōwhiri e tutuki ana i te pai o te whakatakoto! Kei te awhina tēnei ki te whakaiti i ngā wehe kore noa me te whakapakari i te whakaaro me te waea o te whakamahi i te rangi katoa.
Ka hiahia tētahi tāne ki te whakamahi i tētahi pēpi mō ētahi atu take. Hei tauira, kei raro ētahi tāne i ngā momo hauora ranei, i ngā mate ranei, e whakarerekē ana i ō rātou whakahaere i te puku me te waipiro. Ko ia nei, he tangata ahakoa iti, ahakoa rahi, ka taea e ia te whakapau ki tēnei. Ka noho tāne tuatahi ngā tāne ā muri i te hunga e hiahia ana ki te whakamahi i te paku. He mea nui te whakamāramara i tēnei, he mea nō te ao, me te whakamahi i tēnei hei āwhina i te pai o tēnei.
Nō reira, ēngari kāore i nui ngā whakaahua me ngā whakaaro e puta mai nei i te whakaaro mō ngā pēpi tāne. Ko te nuinga o te iwi ka haere tonu ki te whakarerekē i ngā pēpi me te whakapono hoki ko te tāne kāore i taea te whakanuitia i tana hiahia ki te whakamahi i tētahi. Hei aha! Kāore rawa he mea tika, kāore hoki te tāne e pai ana ki te whakanuitia i te pīrau ma. Nō reira, kua nui noa atu te take hei whakaharahara i te hunga e hiahia ana ki te tautoko i a ia. He mea nui rawa te tono mo te tautoko i a ia i te wa e hiahia ana ia, he mea tuatahi nui rawa. Ka whaiwhai hoki te hunga tāne, pērā i te katoa o te hunga tangata, ko tēnā he tino tika.
He aha te mea ka piki te whakaaro mō te tāne e whakanuitia ana i tana pīrau, kāore ia i mēpā he kino rawa, he mea nui rawa hoki. E hia noa iho tēnā, he mea tino pai kē te whakamana i ngā hiahia matua i te tangata e kore ana i te whakamahi i ngā urunga. Ko tēnā he mea nui hei whakamohio! Kei roto nei i tēnā, ko te whakamārama i te mea ko ngā hiahia me ngā wawata o te hunga tāne, pērā i te katoa o te hunga tangata. Ko tēnā he wāhanga iti noa iho i roto i te whāinga nui ki te hanga i tētahi ao e mōhio ana ki ngā whakaaro mō te katoa o te hunga kei roto.
Kei raro i te maha o ngā whiringa mō ngā pēpi tūpapa tāne! Ko te nui o ēnei he kaiwhakarite, ka taea te whakaputuia ki te kura me te tuku atu iho hei whiwhi i te mōhio. He take atu, kei āhei kē ki te hokiwhiti, ka taea te horoi me te whakamahi anō, e noho tonu ana hei taurite ake mo te taiao hei waihotanga moni hoki.
Ki te tae mai ki te tangata, ka kitea e ia te mea e hiahiatia ana ki te whakanui i te pēpi. Ki te kore koe e mōhio ana i a koe e hiahiatia ana... rānei ko te whakamahi, ka arohatia koe kia tono ki te rangitira rongoā rānei ki te tohunga. Ka taea e ēnei tāngata te whakamārama me te aratoi i a koe ki te whiriwhiria i te pēpi pai rawa mo ō mahi takitahi.