Ki ētahi wā, ka noho kaha te tangata ki te whakapae i a rātau pūkeko, ka puta he mate hinengaro mō rātau, ka whakamā rātau. Nā reira, mō tēnei take, ka tuku māua i ēnei pūtētē e mōhio ana hei" kākahu incontinence "! He aha te whakarerekē o ēnei pūtētē kē i ngā pūtētē ā-matou, e ai ki tōu pātai... ko te whakautu he kāwanatanga ā-kitea e āwhinari ana ki te whakahau i ngā pūkeko kia noho i roto, kia kore e whakarerekē ana i ōu kākahu. He kāwanatanga kawe-kiwai anō hoki i runga i ēnei, kāore i te whakawehewe i ngā momo mate kia noho pai tonu.
Nā, ka whai rātou i ngā pūtake whakarere i te wā e kore e taea ana e rātou i te whakamau. Ka kitea he nui rawa atu te whakarere i a rātou, ka noho nui rawa atu rātou i tēnei take. Hei pīrangi korewhai mō ngā wāhine ka taea anō tēnei take! Kei te hanga ngā perepeke nei hei whakarite mō te whā rā, kia āhei ai ngā tamariki kia haere ki te kōhanga reo me te kura i te manaaki, kaua hoki e kitea ngā take. He nui rawa atu te waihangatanga me te pai o enei perepeke, kua pai rawa te whakatuwhera, kāore i wehe i a rātou e mahi.
Mō ētahi atu tangata, kāore i taea te heke i te whare inā ka noho whakaheke te wairua o te take, koia nei ka whāiti te wairua. Ka noho kino rawa te wairua o ngā tamariki, kua kore e whakanuia ana te takaro i waho rānei, arā ko te kitea i a rātou e hoa. Koinei te wā e āhei ana ngā pūkoro moe mō te take whakahē o te tinana ki te whakamahia. He maha rawa te iti me te kore whakapae, kāore i kitea e kei aua pūkoro. Ka āhei ngā tamariki ki te takaro me te mōhio tonu i te pai me te haumaru, kua kitea i te kore e mōhio ana etahi atu. Ko tenei ka whakatika i te wairua, ka whakaiti i etahi āhuatanga mate i te noho mai rātou i a rātou hoa me ō rātou whānau.
Ka whakaheke ngā tamariki i te whakaheke pereki tamaiti nui he mea kitea, he mea nui pērā i te pēpihi (nui me te māmā). Hei āhei, kāore i tika rawa! Nga kakahu hei whakarite i te kaiwhakaū rongoā, e ai ki te āhua me te wero o ngā kakahu nēhi. Ka hīkohiko au i te mea ka whanake ake i te tinana, kia riro ai ngā tamariki kia āhei kia whakanuia, kia haere, kia turituri ki muri i te kōrero o te whenua, karekau i te whakapae i te paihere rānei, i te kino rānei. Kāore hoki i te whakapae i te paihere o te pēpihi, nā te mea he akiaki noa atu ki ngā kakahu nēhi. Nā reira, kāore ngā tamariki i te whakapae i te mea he kakahu kua puta mai hei whakatika mo ratou.
Te wāhi nui rawa o ēnei pūtētē he pēhea te mōhio i te pai me te rere ki te noho. I hangaia rātau i tētahi uara pai, e hoki haere ana, kāore i whakamahia ngā tamariki hei whakarērea i a rātau i te wehe i a rātau. Nā reira, e kore nei i whakarērea i a rātau i te wehe i a rātau, ā he kore hoki i te mahi kia whakarērea ēnei i te wehe i a rātau. Heoi, kaore i te whakarerekē mai i ngā take hoa atu e āhei ana ki te whakarērea i tōu kinaki. Nā reira, kāore i te whakarerekē mai i ngā mahi kē, ā he kore hoki i te whakarerekē i te wehe i a rātau i te mahi.