Ko ētahi wāhine i whai pūtake ki te whakaaro ngā tapa whēkau he mea nui. Mēnā ka puta ake i ngā momo ahua e whakamamae ana i te hinengaro, me he mea hiahia kia kite i tētahi whakatika hei whakarite i te mea e hoki mai nei i te mārō me te pai o te tinana. Nā tā mātau e hanga nei ngā tapa whēkau mō ngā wāhine. He motu whenua rereke, he pai rawa ki te kiri tinana, ā, me hoki koe mārō i te rangi katoa.
Nō reira, kāore he tangata e hiahia ana kia whakatika i te wāhi ahakoa. Ko tēnā he wāhanga o te maha me te māuiui rawa mo ngā mea katoa. Ki te whai i ō rātou pīpī pākihi, ka mutu kē ēnei ahakoa. Kua hanga ēnei hei whakapau wai i te wā, ka tae noa ki te mea koe e mau ana i te huarere. Ki te whai koe i tēnei tiaki, kāore i whea koe e haere ana, ka whakaheke kē ia ki te wāhi e hiahiatia ana koe.
SHE-OLOGY 101: HE RARANGI WHAKAMĀTAU TŪTOHU MO TŌ WAIWAI Pee pads me te kōrero ki ngā hoa wahine E ai ki ētahi wahine, ka mahi ngā mea iti nei i te whakanuia. Nui atu te hiranga o ō rātou pīpī pākihi, nā te mea ka ea kē ēnei ki te kawe. He iti noa ēnei wharekura e pai ana kia whakauruhia i tō pūkorero, arā, he kete hokohoko hoki, kāore i te mōhio he mōhio ki te haere tonu. Ka whakamahi koe i ēnei ki roto i te wharepaku matua, kāore i te whakaaro anō. Whakapakihia ēnei pākihi ki ngā wā e haere ana koe, kia mau tonu.
Kāore koe e hiahia ana ki te whakamomori i tō pūmau e whai ake nei i runga i ō wā barre. Whakanui ngā pihi whara whitiwhiti mōu, haere tonu atu ki te oranga, ahakoa iti noa iho…e mōhio ana koe i te āhua! Kaua koe i te mate me te kore mahi, kia kaua koe i te herehere i tētahi taumata. Ki te mōhio koe i te kaweake i a koe, whakamana koe, ora ai ō rā i ngā mahi e hiahiatia ana e koe; haere mai i te takiwā, nākai ake i te rangi pai o ngā mahi kapa haka me te wā o te whānau me ngā hoa.
Nā ngā pihi whara mōu hei whakarite i ō kākahu me ō mea hanga i te take o ngā taumata. He tino rite, he waho tōnui ki te whakamahi, ā, i whakatakoto hei kawe i a koe ki te katoa. He pai ki te pouaka, ki te roa hei whakakore i ngā pūngao me te rama. Nō reira, he pai anō mō te pō, ka kawe i a koe ki te kōpu me te pō i te wā o te mōmori.